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Thank You for Arguing

thanks argueThe last few months I’ve been reading a book called “Thank You for Arguing,” which is dedicated to understanding and improving the important art of rhetoric.  Of all skill sets in life, I’d imagine that the capability to utilize rhetoric effectively in personal or group discussions will likely have the largest impact on your career and life as a whole.  Every interaction you have in life is somewhat reliant on these skills.  Most people are inherently utilizing rhetoric, but fail to recognize the art as it happens.

I actually have a minor in rhetorical writing, which has served me fairly well in vocational pursuits, but has failed to take hold well in my other areas of life.  The truth is that rhetoric and persuasion are genuinely difficult in practice.  The main reasons are that interacting with others is not necessarily fun–I’ve found as I get older that more and more people would rather not interact with others if avoidable (though not everyone is like this), and that persuading is becoming more and more difficult; it seems like more and more people shut off any argument that’s counteractive to their initial thought processes.  Yet it is the only way to really get what you want.  Or to do what is right.  And that’s an important distinction, what you want is likely (in your mind) what is right.  You cannot do what you think is right in most instances without the support of others.

Rhetoric is supremely important today.  And this book does well to describe how to use it effectively in speech and debate.  Those two activities are not so formal as they sound; they happen every day at the water cooler, kitchen table, email strings and so forth.  Learning the tools and wielding them effectively is to your benefit.  The following is a brief outline of the concepts in the book:

1.  Set Your Goals

  • Before any actual discourse, consider your preferred outcomes — not necessarily “winning” the argument, but what you want to happen as a result (very different ideas)
  • Set your goal for the audience, in changing mood or thought process or action

2.  Control the Tense

  • Focus on the future and the choices of the audience, what are the implications moving forward?  Looking backward does nothing.
  • Avoid fault and/or blame of any party as it is unlikely to provide good will

3.  Soften Them Up

  • Argument by Character (Ethos):  this relies on reputation of the speaker or other parties – e.g. this person’s reputation is worthy of consideration and potentially consent
  • Argument by Logic (Logos):  relying on the logic of the audience, regardless of the position, this could mean accepting opposing ideas in order to get a certain outcome
  • Argument by Emotion (Pathos):  concern with the audience and their mood given a certain situation

4.  Get Them to Like You

  • Use decorum to fit the audience’s consideration, fit in with the decisions making

5.  Make Them Listen

  • Virtue:  adopt the values of the audience
  • Values:  align with the commonplaces of the audience — commonplaces may be one of the most important ideas in this book, it signifies the areas where the group already agrees, which are the areas where an argument starts.  Things so basic as “we all want to grow the company” or “we all agree treating customers well is part of who we are” are mores within organizations and need to be considered.  Those are obvious starts, the questions come from when you get to alignment of resources or functional expectations.
  • Touting experience, or having others do it for you, will lend itself toward getting consideration

6.  Use Your Craft

  • Show your experience
  • Take the middle course – always weigh both sides of the argument and regardless of which way you choose to go, make certain that you’ve covered off on both sides prior to taking a position

7.  cavemanShow You Care

  • Reluctant conclusion – come to your position while highlighting the potential of the other areas of choice, perhaps reluctantly given the situation being overwhelmingly right given the facts
  • Personal sacrifice – sometimes decisions come at a cost of your personal area but are for the greater good
  • Doubt in rhetorical skill – simple words with verbal consideration “I may only be a caveman, but I know this is right.”

8.  Control the Mood

  • Belief, use the experience
  • Tell stories where applicable
  • Control volume – good point to state that any time an argument escalates, you’ve lost
  • Simple language
  • Patriotism and alignment of the group to argument, potentially posing the opposition as against the goodness of the group
  • Desire and emulation

9.  Turn the Volume Down

  • Use the passive voice and do not assign action/blame where avoidable
  • Get audience comfortable, smiling and laughing if possible
  • Empower audience and the importance of their choice for the future

10.  Gain the High Ground

  • Focus on what’s advantageous for the audience
  • Commonplaces — find where everyone aligns and stem argument from that point of trust
  • Normally when people continue to repeat ideas (babbling) there is a commonplace in that place
  • Get to agreement on the subject to create a commonplace where one previously didn’t exist

11.  Persuade On Your Terms

  • Labeling – use of terminology is important as they can hold connotations, use your terms, choose your opponents terms when it helps but reframe their definitions
  • Future tense problem solving includes focusing on Facts, then Definition, then Quality, then Relevance.  Move down the scale as your argument runs into issues, and then consider other action if needed.

12.  Control the Agument

  • Deductive logic creates agreement through “if/then” argumentation
  • Inductive logic ends commonplaces at the time and creates new paths forward
  • Facts / Comparisons / Stories are all valuable in these discussions

13.  Spot Fallacies

  • False comparisons – unalike ideas that are compared regardless
  • Bad example – example doesn’t fit conclusion of argument
  • Ignorance of proof – when you haven’t seen an example and assume that one does not exist due to that ignorance
  • Circular logic – using the premise to lead to a conclusion that is therein the premise
  • False choice – creating a false dichotomy of decisions where none is actually needed
  • Red herring – creating a non linear distraction to avoid the argument at hand
  • Wrong ending – proof doesn’t match conclusion

14. Call a Foul

  • Switching tenses from future to past – always focus on what’s next
  • Inflexible insistence on rules, when realigning rules may be needed
  • Humility – setting out to embarrass another is poor form and shouldn’t be tolerated
  • Threats / foul language – unhelpful and distraction
  • Utter stupidity – difficult to stop but often times can’t be fought head on

15.  Know Who to Trust

  • Apply a needs test – what are the actors looking to achieve and how does it match their rhetoric?
  • Check extremes – are they measured in consideration or one sided?

16.  Find the Sweet Spot

  • Assess the practical wisdom:  Absolutely one way answers, or “it depends” on the situation, latter means impartiality in most instances
  • Actual experience of actors and outcomes
  • Ability to succinctly describe the crux of the issue

17.  Advanced Offense

  • Twist cliches for memorability
  • Change word order of arguments, clever and sticks with audience
  • Edit out loud, shows nonscripted consideration and commonplace compass
  • Emotion where valuable
  • Invent new words

18.  Speak the Audience Language

  • Simple language where possible, use the lexicon of the group to fit in

19.  Make Them Identify With The Choice

  • See the choice as how the group self identifies for the easiest path to victory, few will disagree with the group identity
  • Summarize argument with a halo of identity
  • Do not apologize, ever, just use argument to position for future e.g. “the previous action didn’t live up to my expectations, and I’m going to improve that moving forward”

20.  Right Timing

  • Wait for the right time to push for change — it can take an extreme amount in different scenarios, be patient

21.  Give a Persuasive Talk

  • Invention:  create the issue through facts and choosing the historic considerations going into decision now
  • Arrangement:  choose how to layer the argument for maximum impact, with expectations of questions or commentary
  • Style:  word choice, clarity, vividness, storytelling, decorum, ornament
  • Memory:  having your argument down pat helps delivery and considers rejoinders and how to handle
  • Delivery:  execute the ideas

As you can tell, there was a lot covered in the book. And although you’re already doing this on the daily, thinking through what works and doesn’t is probably a helpful exercise.  The book is recommended, as are the ideas themselves.

New Years Resolutions for 2017

The “winter break” where I often take off the days between Christmas and New Years flew by this year. So I’m actually writing my top music and resolutions post about a week late. Part of this is due to catching a nasty cold while we were in Hayward, Wisconsin. Despite that, it was actually a great trip and I’d like to go back in the future.

As always, we need to start by looking at last year’s objectives and grading ourselves against them:

2016 Goal #1:  Less Sleep. In retrospect this sounds silly anyway, but I did not achieve this goal.  I don’t know that I thought it through all that well.  My initial take was to get more time for exercise and other activities in the morning by getting up at 5am every day.  Truth be told, this idea faded quickly.  Parenting and a general lack of time means that sleep is needed.  I’d give myself an F on this one, mostly due to it being a poorly thought out idea in the first place.

2016 Goal #2:  Less Poor Eating. I’d give myself an A- on this endeavor.  Teresa, Juni and I all committed to purchasing only what we needed for meals and it worked really well.  Every week (including this morning) we plan the dinners and to a lesser extent lunches and snacks, then purchase the food.  This sounds like a simple thing, and it is, but the impact it has on what you eat and the making decisions is really big.  There’s less food around the house to snack on, you save money on wasted food or buying things you don’t actually need or use, and you’re more organized.  This is a resolution that will stick with us for decades, which is the whole point.

2016 Goal #3: Less Screen Time. What gets measured gets managed.  That’s the rub with this.  I feel as though we did a better job this last year in terms of not spending too much time on tablets and phones, but it’s tough to say.  My consumption of media is relegated to Twitter on a tablet, sports or videogames while on the elliptical, and whatever I watch with Teresa and Juni–usually TV series on HBO, movies or kids television.  I don’t think that’s too bad, but it’s not perfect.  Teresa was doing this one as well, I think we both did about the same.  Overall grade, B-.

2016 Goal #4: Less Long Term Thinking. This was more of a purposeful focus on enjoying today than anything else.  I’d like to think this was a successful endeavor generally, but I’d be lying if I stated that my prerogative isn’t still always weighing the long term.  My outlook is usually thinking 2-3 decades down the line at this point; I’ve no idea if this is “normal” for most folks, but it’s how I’m wired.  Yet last year there was a lot of enjoyment in the there and then.  We took a few trips (Iceland, Sweden, and exotic Wisconsin), spent a good deal of time out on the bike and walking in parks.  Looking back, it’s pretty intense how quickly time goes now.  Grade of B+.

Now, as to the coming year.  Looking back at goals, they used to be focused on financial, health and intellectual pursuits.  The financial goals are still there today, but I don’t really feel compelled to write about them as they are simply part of the way we live our lives.  Save some money, pay off some bills, plan for the future.  So many of those pursuits are dictated by the general economy that they become boring, despite being so important.  I still read a lot of financial independence blogs, and respect them, but the minutia which some of these folks pursue saving money and building wealth is too much for me.  We’re in the black, despite having many things to pay off and many capital expenditures on the homestead coming up.

Health wise, this last year was definitely the first year my age became apparent.  A small shoveling incident opened up a potential area of weakness, most likely psychosomatic in nature however nonetheless concerning.  My peak health was in the summer of business school where I dropped down to 160 Lb. and was bordering on a six pack.  It was great, but it also required an incredible amount of working out.  Those days aren’t far gone, but the time to do those things is.  In short, health goals are still happening, but they have to be sustainable and built into the schedule.  Pushups, pull ups, air squats in the AM.  Lifting or running during the lunch breaks.  Elliptical after Juni has gone to bed during videogames or watching TV.  It works.

Intellectual goals are perhaps the most important out of all, given that the others have been the primary focus in the last ten years.  Of course, all of these ideas meld together in uncertain terms as you live your life.  Keeping track is the hardest part, which is why these posts are my favorite of the year.  The question is what to focus on?  What can make a difference for yourself, your family, your friends or the world in general?  That’s the difficulty in choosing. Why not do it all?  Well the return on invested time declines if you try to accomplish too much.  Do something that sticks.

Goal #1:  Become Educated On Climate Change. This is both a professional and personal goal, as it’s quite relevant to my vocation now.  Most of my life I’ve always tried to figure out what’s the biggest thing I can do to help other people and the planet in general.  It hasn’t been a driving force for myself, but a question–when I’ve achieved my personal goals, how can I help to give back?  I think there are a number of things that could entail, but the biggest issue from my viewpoint for the next hundred years will be the drastic effects of climate change and how we can curb the inevitable issues that will stem from it.  At this point it’s not a question of if, but the severity thereof.  The first thing I need to do is get through the books on my night stand and dive into it.  By the end of this year I should have read multiple books and viewpoints on the subject and built an internal prerogative on the most powerful ways to address and limit the changes coming.

Goal #2:   More Family Time. This last year was a big transition for me in learning how to interact with my daughter, sounds odd, but I’ve never actually had any children and as they grow spending time with them is important but not necessarily visceral.  They are learning all the time and don’t always want you around.  It comes more natural to mothers, in my estimation, but it’s every bit as important to have your father there with you as you learn in order to build a relationship.  This goal is about being diligent and speaking and playing with Juni as she grows, as well as finding time for Teresa and I to go out or just relax at home.  With all my other goals for exercise, reading and writing, it actually gets somewhat difficult to find time.  But it has to be a precedent.

Goal #3:  Cut Down Vulgar Vocabulary. My childhood and adolescents were spent in a blue collar background with great friends of similar ilk.   The vernacular of us kids growing up wasn’t always the cleanest, and although we were hardly sailors, many of those less appealing words and phrases have stuck.  With a daughter that will undoubtedly soak in anything and everything she’s exposed to, it’s time to limit those words.  There’s an interesting aside here in the professional environment; when and where is it acceptable to use such vocabulary?  You’d be surprised that it’s actually a powerful tool in many scenarios, but also a humbling achilles heel in others.  This is a post for another time.  The four letter words need to go in the home for certain, and potentially other areas.

Goal #4:   Get To Some New Places. Travel is getting harder with Juniper.  We do have a few trips lined up, first off is San Diego over Spring break, then in the summer a week long vacation with Teresa’s side of the family.  I’d like to get another trip or two in if possible where we go somewhere new, but again it’s a real challenge at this point in time.  It may turn out that the new places are simply a few longer weekends in local areas, but that’d be enough.  Travel is definitely one of my favorite things to do and it’s something that we’ll have to work at.

That’ll do it for this year.  Best of luck to you and yours in the coming twelve months; we’ll check back in on my progress in 2018.

Top Music for 2016

It’s that time of year again, time to review my favorite music from the year.  This last twelve months has been particularly difficult to strum through due to not having on my phone since March. keeps track of all your played music retroactively, however lately I’ve been playing significantly more music through my Sonos system at home which doesn’t work with the app to my knowledge.  I need to look into getting the application working again on my phone and through Sonos, but this year it’s out.  Due to that, this is a much more manual review than data centric.

This was another really good year for music generally.  I’m listening to fewer albums, I think partly because podcasts are becoming a much more prominent use of my time.   They are an excellent way to learn about new things while in the car or at work while doing otherwise menial tasks like updating spreadsheets, etc.  Music isn’t becoming less important, but it is getting harder to keep up with all the albums from bands I used to listen to more frequently and the new bands discovered in the course of the year.  The fact that my year end lists reflect albums from different periods and outside the sequential chronology of a musician is a good thing as it provides more of a rounded view on the content over time.

TLDR: great year, tough to choose, here we go:

ChvrchesEvery Open Eye:  Another gem from the synth keyboard rock set from the United Kingdom.  This band puts out rich synth pop with many layers, and most songs are of such catchy, replay value high intensity that it’s surprising they aren’t top ten.  Tough cut, but it was a good music year.

Okkervil River Away:  Likely an album I’ll return to in the future, Away was a beautiful deviation from the previous Okkervil records, due to altering the band.  Will Sheff compiled some truly amazing songs and lyrics in this one.  He believes it to be his best record.  I don’t currently feel that way over a few earlier records, but have to feel this album will outlast them.  Okkervil River RIP, Comes Indiana Through The Smoke and a few others are timeless.  That is very difficult to do.

Sturgill SimpsonMetamodern Sounds In Country Music: The first modern country album I’d bought in, well ever really unless you count alt country rock bands…and I don’t.  I’d heard some rumblings about his 2016 relase A Sailor’s Guide to Earth, listened to a bit of it on Amazon but never bought it for some reason.  This album was on sale about a month back and I figured it a good time to get in.  It’s really well done and was a prompt for my last tangent on music throughout my life simply for the fact that country hasn’t had a prominent place, yet that seems like it will change if artists such as this exist and put out material.  Good music is good regardless of genre.  I have a feeling his 2016 release, by most accounts his best work, may find it’s way on to my 2017 list.

Angel Olsen – MY WOMAN: Heady, sultry singing and rock music from a new voice with lots to add.  Songs touching at the core of human emotions in relationships while still jamming out a bit.

The official list of top ten albums from the year:

Aes Impossible#10: Aesop Rock, The Impossible Kid – Ian Bavitz is aging, much like the rest of us.  Seems unlikely for this one, a veritable walking dictionary explaining concepts in crossword rap, colored by mood altering backgrounds wont to alter at any moment, for the better or worse depending on the direction he wants to guide you.  Rap is a young mans game, it would seem.  Of course, to a certain extent, music is as well.  Aes is aging extremely well.  He is human and copes with multiple issues on record.  He brings you in and shares difficulty, the effort needed to move on, and more.  The Impossible Kid may not be his best album, but it’s as good as any of them, if that makes any sense.  His craft is mastered at this point, he’s just picking his spots.  And you shouldn’t miss any of it.

NOFX First Ditch Effort#9: NOFX, First Ditch Effort –  A long time favorite.  Definitely in my top five bands all time.  They put together another punk gem, rife with funny subject matter that is always worth listening to.  It’s catchy punk, but Fat Mike pulls no punches either–he’s still at odds with a great deal of American policies and many who promote them.

This is their best effort since Coaster for certain, and perhaps better than Wolves in Wolves Clothing.  Probably only a good buy for someone who already likes the genre.

Modern Baseball Holy Ghost#8: Modern Baseball, Holy Ghost –  This is the first album of this band I’ve purchased.  It took quite a few listens to get into the thick of it.  Once I did, it was pretty obvious why so many people think they are the next big thing in alt rock.  It’s fast, energetic music yes, but it’s also honest and forthright about what’s happening in the lives of the band members.  They wear their emotional hearts on their sleeves and put out an honest record with enough variety to keep you coming back.

I’ll likely purchase some other albums to see what else they’ve cooked up, but the quality for this album is very good while still being a high energy work.  There aren’t enough of those bands right now.

Bon Iver 22 a million#7: Bon Iver, 22, A Million – Justin Vernon has been a favorite of mine for some time.  Regardless of the project, from Bon Iver to Volcano Choir to his other multiple collaborations, his works are always very good.   I heard this album in its entirety at Eaux Claires Music Festival in the summer, and at the time stood under rapture for roughly an hour as he put on one of the better live performances in my recollection.  At that point in time it seemed this was destined to be album of the year.  It took another few months for it to arrive officially, and at that point something was lost.  The album is good, but there are enough points of disconnect throughout that as an entire work it does not seem as good as either of his prior releases.  Many will disagree with this thought as it has been cited as his best album.

This is still an excellent record.  The opening track is one of the better introductions to a piece of music in recent memory.  The risks taken, although sometimes altering the cadence of the record negatively, not outside merit.  The final track is also extremely good.  Everything in between is interesting and strong musically speaking.  Hopefully, Bon Iver continues to put out music and I’ll be able to judge this new record against future albums; it’s divisive for me in that the changes from album to album are difficult to discern.  The bottom line is that, though this was an interesting work, it didn’t get as many repetitions as it should have and I can’t shake that.

Elliot Smith Either Or#6: Elliot Smith, Either/Or –  I’d gotten into Elliot Smith a few years back, actually quite a few years back considering it as around the time I began dating Teresa.  I’d picked up his self titled offering, A Basement on the Hill, and XO.  I did not pick up Either / Or, and that is unfortunate as in my esteem it’s probably his best album!  Elliot was renowned for his songwriting most, his musicianship shortly thereafter and a very soft singing voice was his calling card.  Elliot Smith made truly beautiful music.  The reason I stopped listening to him was mostly that the sadness of the songs occasionally put me in a mood I wasn’t aiming for.  It says nothing of the product itself, however that’s the main reason his albums and songs aren’t played more often.  This album was EXTREMELY well put together and basically played one month straight (March) as my wait for the next album on this list extended.  Just a great album and if you’re a fan of good singer songwriters, an easy choice.

sethandjessicasing_cover#5: Seth Avett & Jessica Lea Mayfield, Seth Avett & Jessica Lea Mayfield Sing Elliot Smith –  It was actually somewhat of a fluke that I’d purchased the Elliot Smith record; it just happened to be on sale at the right time.  This album, however, I’d been waiting for for roughly six months since getting wind of it via the interwebbery.  Seth Avett is the lead singer of the Avett Brothers and Jessica Lea Mayfield is a singer songwriter with a beautiful voice and Southern accent which is incredibly endearing.  A fan of both of their works, and Elliot Smith’s songwriting in general, I couldn’t wait to hear what they did with his catalog.  They did not disappoint.  This album is one of the better offerings for late nights and a drink I’ve ever heard.  It’s very much like Smith’s early material, however drawn out with the vocals of both these accomplished artists.  Front to back, the whole of it is well done and an absolute must for any Smith fan.  Strangely, it did not receive a great deal of notoriety–most likely due to being a covers album, from non mainstream artists of a deceased non mainstream artist.  Regardless, it’s a welcome addition.

Conor Oberst Ruminations#4: Conor Oberst, Ruminations – Conor has made many appearances on my list of best albums over the years.  Two years ago he had my top listing for 2014, and this year he put out Ruminations, which actually might be a better album overall, although it’s a close call at that.  He created this record after having a cyst found in his brain while on tour with the Decaparacidos, whose last album was #7 last year.  This album is completely stripped down, it’s really only Conor, a piano, harmonica and guitar.  It’s all focused on his stellar writing and sparse organizations of music which I assume he can play all on his lonesome in front of a crowd (hopefully he’ll tour this release.)  Like most of his music, this is a fantastic piece of art which is listenable over and over due to the writing and composition.

Willie Essential#3: Willie Nelson, The Essential Willie Nelson – It’s kind of unfair to have an all time great like Willie on this list, because in all reality his greatest hits album would almost unanimously be voted the best of all included offerings by most.  However, since it’s actually a listing of my favorite albums in a year, it’s all good.  And I mean that about Willie–I’ve always liked his music, but this double album is so full of amazing music that he’s probably joined my top ten all time.  I’ll make another list of that some other day I’m feeling ambitious.

I’m not usually a big fan of “essential” or “best of” albums.  Listening to albums put out a certain point in time from an artist is so telling of what their doing and their evolution.  It’s the best way to listen to music in my esteem.  I own another four albums of Willie.  They are all pretty darn good.  But he has so much music put out over so many decades that my eagerness to go through and find all the best picks waned.  The same goes for a lot of artists in the classic country genre like Kris Kristofferson and Johnny Cash.  Love the music, but not enough to buy all those albums.  So in this case the essential press was the best choice.  And it’s amazing.  You can listen to every one of these forty plus songs and enjoy every minute.  Nelson’s voice is distinct, comforting, challenging, and reminiscent.   He’s like no other artist.  If you’re a fan of anything you’ve heard of his, this is a great purchase.  I gave a copy to my father after purchasing and I’m sure he’s enjoying every bit as much as I did.

Carseat Teens#2:  Car Seat Headrest, Teens of Denial – This was a random Amazon purchase.  I read reviews.  I clicked purchase.  It took me quite a few listens to really absorb what was going on in this, despite it being a pretty straight forward guitar based indie rock album.  Will Toledo is the bands originator, lead vocalist and guitarist.  He’s been writing and performing music for some time now and his music has progressively grown more annunciated (I purchased his “Teens of Style” precursor to this release and the amount of deliberate distortion to vocals is notable, as well as the instruments themselves) over time.  Each song on this intricate, epic work is dense musically with well thought out play styles.  The lyrics are open and somewhat meandering in a deliberate sort of way, showcasing the life of a young musician and the good and bad choices he makes.  It’s an introspective trip.  When I first started listening to this, it was the spring/summer and I’d recently begun biking down to our local grocery to pick up our weekly provisions.  Feeling the sun rain down on my back while hearing each of these tracks play was one of the best parts of my year.

If you like indy rock, guitars and an open look at life as you pass through it, this is the best offering of the year.  Toledo is going to be a force to come, if this is any indication.


FC Next Thing#1:  Frankie Cosmos, Next Thing / Zentropy / Fit Me In – This is a small cop out in that I’m listing three albums in place of one actual album, but it was necessitated out of listening to both full length albums such a large amount it was very difficult to distinguish them in a ranking. The third EP, Fit Me In, is also great and a nice change up. So, where to start? Frankie Cosmos in the namesake of Greta Kline, a young musician based in New York. This is indie rock on the softer side. Greta has a beautiful voice and most of her songs are short bursts of poetic thought processes on varying subject matter. She takes interesting risks in writing and in musicianship, using acapella and backing vocals in ways that entrance you. The first of these three albums purchased was her latest, Next Thing, on the recommendation of Pitchfork. My first real listen was a rainy bike ride to my friends in South Minneapolis, and it was one of the most enjoyable rainy days of my life. The sound of this album is unique. Musically it somewhat reminds of earlyish Belle and Sebastian in it’s simplicity, but combined with Greta’s voice it creates something uncanny. Her vocals range from a monotone base where she exists beautifully, but scales upward to a thin, almost raspy octave where she nears colored whispers. Unfortunately, my capability to describe her sound likely have a negative effect when the opposite is meant–her singing is truly lovely, and when coupled with her musicianship and writing, well it creates an entirely new world to become lost in.

FC ZentropyAfter immersing myself in that album for the better part of a month, it was time to listen to other offerings from the band. They have a large back catalog on Band Camp. The easiest reentry point was Zentropy, their first full length. Upon first sample, I wasn’t sure it would have the same polish so enjoyed on Next Thing, but that was quickly dispelled after a few listens. Zentropy very well may be a better album in it’s simplicity; a walk in the woods with the sun shining on my shoulders listening to it is a stand out memory. The writing and music are every bit as good as their newest album and I’m honestly uncertain where to tell anyone to start.

FC Fit Me InFinally, in dire hopes of adding to the Frankie Cosmos collection, I picked up Fit Me In – which is a deviation from the other two works in that it’s more focused on electronica and synth pop. There are only four songs, but they are fun and work very well interspersed with their other albums. At this point, I mostly just shuffle all their albums together and enjoy. Greta is my artist of the year, and her band’s albums will always make 2016 a standout. I cannot wait to hear what they to next. Music keeps you young.

1,001 Posts – Happy New Year’s!

Teresa, Juniper and I are headed Northeast to a cabin with some close friends for New Years.  It should be a lot of fun and a nice break away; I doubt I’ll blog at all while there.

Redmarketer just hit 1,000 posts!  It only took eight years to do it.  :-)

I hope to continue to write here more often, however my frequency has been low lately and will likely continue to be until I figure this whole parenting thing out.  Might be another 18 years or so.

Happy new year’s to you and your family; I’ll try to write about my favorite albums and resolutions for 2017 after getting back.

Here’s a picture of where we’re headed:


Music Throughout My Life

Growing up, we listened to the radio in Alexandria, Minnesota.  For the most part it was pop music–Kaaaay-Ceeee-El-Deeeee was the station.  The local radio was a barometer of what music caught people’s attention at that point in time.  My sisters were often dictating what was listened to then and as such it was a reflection of the younger generation’s interests.  There was a great deal of alternative rock, gangster rap, R&B, and pop vocalists for a lack of a better term.  We’re talking JAMZ here, people.

Radio was an introduction to music which led to purchasing a few albums at our local Target.  The first album I bought was REM’s Monster, which I got into despite it being a very mediocre album.  At that age, as you start getting into music, almost anything can be found to have merit as you really haven’t listened to a lot of music.  I bought Offspring’s Smash, which was actually a really good album and liked it a lot.  I had had Green Day’s Dookie on a cassette from a neighbor who dubbed it and gave it to me on the school bus earlier.  This was my first real experience with music and it was a slow start.  I liked the tunes but didn’t understand albums and how to really find different sounds outside of radio.

As I got a little older I’d start to go to the local record store to buy albums.  I started listening to more rock focused radio stations, I purchased a Tool album that became obsession for about six months, a few Metallica albums (same), Pearl Jam’s Ten, Nirvana’s Muddy Banks of Wishkah live album, amongst others.  These were my 10-15 age years.  I saved up and bought a CD player in the summer of sixth grade and pumped rock albums thereafter.  I’d do exercises and get amped up in my room listening while trying to get stronger — using a set of weights from my neighbor to do reps over and over.

Sound pretty boring?  Well it was.  I was out in the country before the internet had really become a thing and there simply wasn’t that much to do out there.  But radio waves were available and became an inlet to many different cultures, even if only through a distorted and glamorized lens.

My cousin was listening to punk music which I saw at his house.  He was really into Green Day and had some other records from bands like NOFX and Rancid.  Eventually punk music became my genre of choice.  It started out with listening to Blink 182 with friends.  Blink was a gateway band, they played fast music which was mostly focused on girls and how much it sucked to be a kid growing up, which fit well.

During all this time, country music was always seen as the enemy.  It was sappy and slow. It seemed to be the choice of more rural focused farmer types.  My sisters, my friends and anyone “cool” in my esteem were not listening to country.  At least not pop country.  I didn’t really know about any other types of country at the time; it was just the pop country that I’d heard.  Recently, however, I’ve found myself listening to a good amount of classic country.  Pop is still pretty much out of the question, but the older characterizations of country like Willie Nelson, Kris Kristofferson, Johnny Cash and other of that ilk are genuinely great music.

I’m writing about this today as I’ve been considering what types of music I enjoy the most and why.  For the most part, music has been a guiding light for me.  It does such an amazing job opening up new concepts and areas of intellectual consideration which weren’t really available without.   Listening to music is one of my favorite parts of life, definitely my favorite art form and something to look forward to analyzing.  With that said, one of my next posts will be on my favorite albums of 2016—and there were many!

Sportsball in Minnesota

My favorite team since I was about five years old is the Minnesota Timberwolves.  We haven’t made the playoffs in 12 years and it’s looking like lucky number 13 is a foregone conclusion at this point.  We have a new coach and a ton of talent on the team, but we have not improved to date.  We will eventually, but this year has been an exercise in restraint and optimism for the future.

The Vikings started the season 5-0 and are now 6-6.  It has been a terrible two months of losses, some close and some not so close.

Minnesota seems to have terrible luck with professional sports (and college but I do not follow that closely.)

Sadly, this is one of my favorite past times and I cannot help but root for my teams.  It’s going to be a long and difficult season.

Gearing Up For Winter

It’s that time of year, the first snow has fallen.  This first part of winter is actually really enjoyable on multiple fronts.  The holidays are right around the corner, which usually means gathering with family members and taking a little time off from work.  I’m certainly planning on both as my workload has been on overdrive lately and a solid week off would do wonders.

Basement Nook

This year we had a few projects to get completed prior to the cold setting in.  The biggest was having gas inserts put into our fireplace / chimney areas.  The decision to actually do it was largely based on how cold it gets in a split level house.  We anticipate Juni spending a lot of time downstairs and having a nice warm fireplace radiating heat will go a long way toward making it cozy and inviting.  We’ve been working with the gas company to get them installed the last two months and it’s finally completed.  They are pretty slick, with thermostat based remotes which you can set to be warmer or colder, on timers or just binary off and on.

We rearranged the basement (well technically it was Teresa) to give some more play area on the East side of the house and now have a chair by that fireplace.  Eventually we’ll move the dog kennels and get another chair there as well, but probably not until next year.  To round out this new reading nook, I purchased a small footstool which is now in place.  It’s going to be a fun winter–hopefully we get some time outside as well as in.

Next steps are getting all furniture and miscellaneous items organized outside near the house, making sure the snowblower is running properly and a final check on the rain gutters.  All this before another Vikings loss!  ;-)

We are celebrating Xmas at Thanksgiving this year on Teresa’s side so not sure I’ll be writing much until after.   Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.

Juniper Mae – 1.5 Years and Running

Juni BabyIt is a little less than 18 months since Juniper Mae Ed was delivered into this world to a tear stricken father and exhausted mother.  Her little misshapen head proved malleable enough to restore itself to it’s healthy rounded expectation shortly thereafter.  The bright red spot which developed a few weeks later above her right eye has stayed with us significantly longer, it’s still around, but will likely be a bygone in pictures in a year or two.

My how time flies.

Today Juni is running full speed throughout the house all weekend.  Teresa and I are still trying to recover from various states of sickness we’ve picked up in the last few weeks.  Her’s a lingering cough and mine a short lived sore throat and general tiredness.

The last eighteen months have gone so quickly that it’s difficult to put a solid description of the changes they imply.  Particularly with the US election which happened last week.  The first female would be president was upset by a capitalist who has never been in office or military.  The future is in flux to a certain extent and many here in the US are uncertain our future.  Of course, the future is always uncertain but now less predictable and that ambiguity is causing people stress.

Juniper has provided a new vantage point on life.  A longer term consideration of the implications of actions taking place today.  My main concerns today are that of climate change, water scarcity and resource constraints caused by temperature fluctuations.  Our ecosystem is volatile and the greenhouse gases we are emitting are amplifying the changes to our climate very quickly now.  These are cold hard facts that near every leader on the planet (sans US, now) agree on, but have previously struggled to commit toward altering industrial actions to veer from our current path.  The Paris Climate Agreement was a good step toward limiting the emissions from each country, but the President Elect has the potential to back out of that agreement, which would be very negative as a world leader.

One of the largest complaints I hear from younger generations is that the older generations are actually selfish and only consider themselves.  To a certain extent I agree with it.  Outside of the obvious gaffe of a particular age set labelling themselves “the greatest generation” (the laughable hubris!) there is a great sadness in the misconception of judging others in significantly different circumstances.  For instance, the youth of today are empowered with a great deal of tools via the internet, yet their competition is much more fierce–to enter college, to find a decent job, to afford rent or purchasing a home.  Yet others might not understand the underlying economics and question why they don’t just work hard, save up and buy a house.  Of course the jobs that provide that ability are typically masters levels, decade plus experience roles (and still hindered by elongated timelines of purchase….housing is far more expensive now than in the 70s-90s naturally).

Juni 1.5

My grandfather was a farmer for some time, then became an assembly line worker.  He was by no means rich, but could afford to raise a family of 8 children and buy a house in rural Minnesota.  I don’t know that those jobs are available, or capable of doing  such things today.  My other grandfather was a graphic artist and did quite well with it as a profession, however today there must be 20x the amount of people that do that using desktop publishing, not to mention the fact that it’s been institutionalized to the point where creating your own business as a freelancer is significantly less lucrative, if genuinely possible.

The younger generations today will have it significantly harder than I did.  I was very fortunate, in addition the hard work I put in, to be able to do what I wanted and find a role that provides for my family–as was Teresa.  Juniper and her ilk will be fighting for jobs in a world where economics are driven by automation and artificial intelligence, where our environments are being tested to their capacity by how many humans inhabit the earth and employ resources wantonly without recourse.  War over things we take for granted like water and food will rage in developing nations.  Developed countries will deal with social unrest and potentially worse as the lower classes are left without work.

These are the things that rattle around in my brain as I look at her.  She is so beautiful and full of life.  She smiles and makes me smile.  She is independent.  She won’t hold my hand when I drop her off at daycare as she wants to walk on her own, which is saddening, but only for me.  And most everything comes back to her, in some form or fashion.  Do other parents think like this?  I believe so, I believe most of us think more about them than we do ourselves.  That’s the big change in worldview.

Juniper, your mother and father love you.  Our lives are much better with you here and we are excited to see what you choose in the future.

In Cold Blood – Truman Capote

In Cold Blood

I’ve been reading a lot lately, well really the last year.  A very large amount of that has been work reading–learning about solar power, climate change, decarbonization of the planet andelectrification of our power systems.  But about two months ago, I hit a wall.  I was tired of reading for an hour every night about work.

So I picked up three novels.  The first was Ham on Rye by Bukowski, which came recommended from a friend.  Very good.  The next was In Cold Blood by Capote.  This is nonfiction writing, which is not really my forte, but trying new things with books is always good.

In Cold Blood is the story of a small town Kansas family who is brutally murdered with essentially no clues left behind.  It’s the story of a detective and his team trying to puzzle together who could do such a heinous thing and, just as importantly, why they would.

The book is told as a semi mystery, however it becomes obvious who actually dunnit within the first half of the book.  At that point the story turns more mysterious, trying to understand the reason why the murders happened is likely as curious as the actual act.  Capote is excellent at his craft, creating visible, human characters with stories to tell.  Seemingly no matter how small the person presented, they are effortlessly painted in human tones.

Chapters are normally short and poignant.  Words are similar.  Capote was capable, he was caring.

He showcased the murders for what they were.  He didn’t blanche at their brutality but he didn’t turn it to pornography either.  He simply told the story through those who knew it best.

The story does have an ending.  Perhaps as interesting as anything written here is the psychoanalysis of the captives, along with their cell mates.  Holding cells and time to view that slow train coming.  Acceptance, consideration and attempts at self preservation.  Any day now, any day now.

Music Streak — When I Was 33, It Was A Very Good Year

The last three months I haven’t purchased an album I didn’t like.  Normally my purchases have a 50% “value” ratio where it’s a good album and will get listened to again in the future.

Some albums hold up for a few spins and otherwise aren’t paid attention.  Some get a huge amount of rotations during the year and eventually fade out.  Most albums follow this route.  Some last two years and fade.  Then there are the upper echelon of albums that are played repeatedly over the years.  Very few albums break into this area simply due to inability to come to mind as something to listen to out of nowhere.

This is why certain artists continually get more plays.  Dylan especially has created so many “timeless” albums that were, are and will forever be great.  I’ve been on a hot streak lately, it’s been like ten albums straight of really good music.  It’s going to be a very difficult time to choose top albums this year.

Here are some albums to check out if you are looking for something new:

Okkervil River – Away
Conor Oberst – Ruminations
Frankie Cosmos – any of her albums, but the most recent is fantastic
NOFX – First Ditch Effort
Atmosphere – Fishing Blues
Bon Iver – 22, A Million

There are some older records I’ve been listening to as well, but I’ll wait until the year ends to put together the proper list.  Hopefully I’ll be writing a good amount during that time as I’ll be taking some much needed vacation.

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